The real love story in Tamil Nadu - SJ Informative

 THE LOVE STORY💔

    The story about the love of one middle class boy and girl. This is a common love story in every life especially in Tamil Nadu. The love starting in village, which was in down south of Tamil Nadu and this about the couple Sanjay and Sanjana. Story of love starts in 2010.

    Sanjay and Sanjana both are studying 10^th standard, but they didn’t know to each other. In Tamil Nadu, 10^th examination is the public examination, so in Sanjay’s home his dad have decided to join Sanjay in tuition to get good marks. Dad didn’t believe Sanjay about his studies so he came to the decision to join in the tuition. After one week he joined in tuition. At the time of joining, dad told to tuition master in front of all students that he is a average person to study so only I joined here please take care of him. It created grievance for him, but he know about dad so he just leave that moment. 

    After some days he realize about the tuition, it’s a not right place to study, it’s a place for students for talking and playing, like this way days were going. This tuition was 2km away from Sanjay’s home so he went to tuition by cycle, one day he went to tuition but tuition was closed, he just confused and turn back, the girl stood back to him, name Sanjana, who told to Sanjay about the situation of tuition, she told to him that tuition not available today because of master’s illness, that was the first eye to eye sight meeting with some speech for both and then he decided to go home, in this time there was nothing happen to both, she just said about the availability of tuition and then he went to home. 

    After three months, he decided to drop the tuition. Then public examination have got over and then results came he got 423 out of 500 and he didn’t think about Sanjana because there were no interaction between them in these three months. After that, the days were going he studying 11^th, he going to school through bus only.

    In some days, Sanjay and Sanjana catch the same bus, at the time of seeing she just wave to him. After three months of tuition, he saw Sanjana only 8 to 10 times in bus in 2 years after 10^th standard. After getting good cut off marks in 12^th he got a seat in Government college. Days were going, in 3^rd year, he opened a facebook account. In every weekend he gave 17rs to his college classmate Sathyaraj, his friend for mobile net recharge, he was hosteller, so he gave money to day scholar for recharge, like this way he passing the weekend days by just chatting with friends in facebook.

    One day, he received a friend request, name Sanjana, after seeing this request, he thinks it’s a fake account, he forgot totally about Sanjana. Without knowing about the account he speak for 2 to 3days. 

    After that he slowly ask questions like ‘do you know me?’ she told, ‘yes’ then she told about her Convent school and he told, ‘ I don’t know any members in Convent school’ after she told about 10^th tuition and then suddenly he shocked and realized Sanjana, and then he asked the question ‘how are you’. So, they have talked to each other after 5 years. For one year both were talking …..talking…..talking , days were going like this life went in good way but sometimes both were fighting seriously but this paved the way for love they didn’t know at that time. 

    Sanjay’s mindset was no belief in success of love. For Sanjana, there was no person come for her to give love. These was the thinking for both. For one year both were talking as friends. There were only two conversations in Sanjay’s phone one was advertisement and another one was Sanjana. If sometimes, Sanjay taking about love, Sanjana told to him that ‘don’t fall in love, marry one girl and show your love to her’. This type of conversation creates one type of moment in heart of Sanjay. At last both were talking about love, but they don’t cross the limit. 

    On January 2, early morning Sanjana told her love to Sanjay after very first message Sanjay also replied that he also love with her, on the same day he have one B.E exam which was thermal paper, at the time of examination, due to sleepless night of chat he didn’t get the concentration to write, after refreshes his mind he starts writing, at the end of examination he decided that this was not good, this creates disturbances for his life, he thought. 

    After the examination he going to native because next examination will after 3 days. At the time of journey he told to her this love was not suitable for us lets finish this, she replied that, ‘at the time of your reply of love I have decided you are my husband’ its your wish, she added and then he thinks and said sorry for that ignorance. Like same lovers, they also start their love, after some days her possessiveness irritates him, due to this, lot of conflicts made between them.

    He told to her frequently that she never understand his situation, after some time both were compromised and come back to normal situation. At last he finished his Bachelor degree, so his next step to get a job. At the time returning to home, he told to her I have lot of commitments so we have to control our conversation, she said ok. At first, he joined in bank coaching class, he didn’t have much concentration so he also searching job at evening, so after some days, he got apprentice job in Coimbatore at 9500rs salary per month. 

    It’s a three shifts work, after one month he got salary he bought one new mobile for him, so he decided to give his old mobile to his mom. He didn’t know their conversation were not deleted in his old mobile, his mother saw that messages she knows that his son in love. Every mother in Tamil Nadu at first got angry, she scold him harshly at first call and second call she cried due to his activities, so he decided to stop the conversation for some months, he told his decision to Sanjana then next problem, Sanjana cried and told him to speak with her, this side mom and another side Sanjana, ‘what a irritating moment’ he thinks. 

    Sanjana again and again crying, he told to her don’t cry we have to stop our talking for some months only for creating belief in his mother but Sanjana cannot accept to stop this talking. One day his mother called him and ask about Sanjana and he told about her, she said sorry to him for scolding then he said ‘its ok mom’. Due to this compromising then they both talk to each other. 

    After one year he finished apprentice job and got the certificate. With this certificate and his 20000 savings he went to Chennai for searching job, after 18 days he got a job through consultancy by paying 15000. His salary was 12000 in his new company. His love continues without any interruption. So again he thought this job not suit for him, so he decided to move on. After 1 year and 2 months he resigned the job and took 15000 pf amount to change his carrier to design field and then he joined one design academy and finished three courses in one and half months. 

    After one week of this course he got a job in Auto Cad based company, it’s a design company. Even he have 2 years experience, he didn’t get a salary as he wants, 12500rs was his salary. After three months he decided to drop his love because of finance and at the same time both were 25yrs old. In Tamil Nadu every girl will get marry at the age of 25, but he cannot marry her because his salary was low, he cannot save her with this salary, by thinking this, he decided to finish his love with lot of pain. It’s a wrong decision but he didn’t know what to do. Every girl won’t accept this, she cried he convinced her but no use, but at last she accepts, what to do.

            Then second part of their life starts, both were talking when they get the time. He thought about his guilty to drop a girl but he has a reason that he didn’t have enough money, she told to him that money not a problem but old persons and surrounding persons and relatives never accept this , by thinking this he came to this decision. After 1.5 years he got some hike then his take home salary was 20000. So again after 1.5 years, he asking to her,’ is any groom fix for you’ she said, ‘no’, then he asked will you marry me, she said double ok at very first message (Girls are very strong in their first decision there is no doubt in this). He got relief because of her happiness.

            He told to her don’t worry, ‘ I will talk to your parents’ , but her mom wont accept him, because he dropped her for ‘finance’ reason but now he return back. There was no belief to her mother, she told to Sanjana don’t believe him. She got afraid and also crying, she thinks that she got acceptance from her mother easily, then Sanjana’s mother told to Sanjana’s elder sister and her sister told to his husband to finish this love of both. Three were didn’t take this problem to Sanjana father’s ear. 

    Sanjana’s sister’s husband name was Arun, who comes to solve this, sorry he comes to break the love. Arun talk to Sanjay through phone, he doesn’t like Sanjay’s speech because Sanjay was low caste but Sanjana’s family was high caste. Sanjay talked to Arun and he said sorry for breakup her before 1.5 years, but he didn’t believe Sanjay and also citing his caste, Arun decided to finish the conversation and also decided to finish the love. 

    Sanjay tried so much to get a success in love but Arun was very adamant and he trying to break the love at finally Arun told ‘ if you talk to Sanjana then I will take any type of action it will definitely hurts Sanjana’ he added. Then Sanjay thinks about Sanjana and told him I won’t suffer Sanjana from this time, he told. Sanjay thinks that Arun will help him but citing the caste Arun break their love.

    After Sanjana's family decided to fix groom for her. Sanjana told the incidents in her house to Sanjay if she has time. Like this he got information from Sanjana that what was happening in her house. Her parents fixed one groom her, but their approach was not fine, they asked too much dowry, so Sanjana's parents decided to drop this engagement.

    This situation makes Sanjana little bit relaxation, but not for a long time. Late night tears for both creating a emotional night in their lives. Especially for Sanjana, boys will bear this but girls never tackle this type of frustration. Sanjay knew that Sanjana will daily but he can't do thing, if he start his speech about marriage to her relative, then they start to scold and torture Sanjana, this will create more emotional about Sanjana to him.

    So he don't speak anything to her, and then one day she told about her engagement and the groom accepted her and the parents from boy side decided to arrange the engagement after 4days. This side Sanjay went to office and think about her while travelling, at night, while hearing sad songs, his only thought about Sanjana's character such a wonderful character that ever seen in her life. He felt very well that he going to miss her, almost he missed because she got engaged.

    Sad thing was meeting between Sanjana and Sanjay was not longer than 2minutes. In their 3years of love they met each other only 3 times, their total minutes of meeting within 10 minutes only. The most saddest moment for Sanjay was that, Sanjana told him that, " I love to hold your hands but it didn't happen in our three years of love". This line won't forget for Sanjay till his death.

    On November 21, 2021, she got married, the day before Sanjay's birthday, the saddest birthday in his life. He knew something about her situation before her marriage but now it totally stops, he don't know where she is, what she is doing. Sometimes her crying moments strike in his mind, tears will come automatically in his eyes, missing wonderful girl in his life.

            

    In this same way all love were broke due to castes in Tamil Nadu. By citing the low and high castes some foolish and waste less people in Tamil Nadu creates lot of problems. We didn’t know when this caste problem finish, if this type of foolish and waste less members in Tamil Nadu, our state won’t get a improvement.

‘STORY OF LOVE ENDS IN 2021 DUE TO CASTE’.

‘BAN THE CASTE’

 

Thanks.

S.J.